This online sanctuary has been created to support a global community in experiencing and sharing the transformative power of gratitude. By using the site you agree to the following terms.

To preserve the integrity of the site, the following actions are expressly disallowed:

  • Posting vulgar, obscene, or indecent language.
  • Dominating the community space
  • Advertising or posting any form of solicitation, including URLs or hyperlinks.
  • Posts that malign, vilify, defame, abuse, harass, or threaten others.
  • Advocating violence against or harassment of groups or particular individuals.
  • Aggressive, repeated attempts to convert someone’s religious beliefs.
  • Messages that are visually distracting or disruptive.
  • Posting a virus or other harmful component.
  • Using crawlers, spiders, or any automated software to copy substantial portions of the website.
  • Any other action which may put undo load on the website and cause it to slow down or become unresponsive to users.
  • Impersonating other users, people, or site administrators, or using multiple aliases.

In addition, with regard to our Light a Candle feature:

  • You may come back to the site to light new candles or to replace the ones that have burned down.
  • Just as if you were at a public event or in a sacred space, we ask each individual participant to refrain from lighting a disproportionate number of candles. More important to the experience of Light a Candle is the heartfelt quality of your candle message(s) rather than the quantity of candles lit.
  • Using automated means and/or rapidly lighting candles with the same or essentially the same message is prohibited. Even if the intention is appropriate, flooding the site with repeated and/or blank messages is considered undesirable as it inhibits diversity of the candles others encounter.

The site administrators reserve the right to remove any comments, posts or candle messages and to ban any users or software that substantially inhibit the ability of others to use and enjoy this website.

These terms and conditions are subject to change. Any updates will be posted here. If you have questions or would like to report a violation please contact us.

Thank you for your cooperation – we are truly grateful!